Saturday, February 17, 2007

Who benefits from the myth of a work/life balance?

EVOL at Love Park

Balance. Life is all about balance. Nowadays we've all become acrobats... juggling hectic lives instead of balls... spinning our commitments like plates... actively trying to keep everything moving... everything in the air.

I've been trying my best to keep my life in better balance... Its one of the things I have been working on since the beginning of the year. I have been trying..!

On Friday I was told I am to go back to Philly... and I now feel like everything else is falling around me... its as if I am expected to let everything else fall for the sake of my work.

This is something I just can't accept.

The two weeks it is proposed that I am in the US corresponds with the weekend that Olly and I were hoping... trying... to spend in celebration of our marriage. Is it fair for me to have to drop this to go away? I don't think so.

Is it also fair for Olly to be left with the we'ans... on her own... for two weeks? Sure, we have great family and friends who will support her... but it should be me that's there for her... and for my we'ans.

But what can I do? Will I honestly get away with NO? Can I say "I can't travel at this time" without seriously expecting repercussions?

I need to be careful what I say here... it is not that I am unwilling to travel... I loved my previous trip to Philly and, no doubt, I will enjoy this adventure too... but there is more to this than just me.

Two hours with my we'ans on their own and I am homicidal - two weeks is too much to expect Olly to cope on her own.

And we desperately need this weekend away. Marriages need work. Flames need to be kept fed with time.

Who benefits from the myth of a work/life balance?

I'll keep you posted on the situation as it presents itself... who knows... I may be able to tell you about it at the gathering in person.

Please keep the whole family in your thoughts and prayers. Lesser things have destroyed greater people!
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